I feel that sometimes, people should keep their feelings to themselves and try to solve their problems on their own. But if the problem at hand gets nasty, I'd say that they should seek help from a close friend or someone they trust a lot. Being different is okay if you believe you are in the right, If anyone was different from the norm, I'd usually call them unique. The best thing to do under all these situations is to actually believe in ourselves and know that we were born the way we are. If everyone loved themselves for how they are, I believe the world would indeed be a better place.