Wether its losing a five dollar note or the death of your best friend, its all a loss. A loss to yourself, and maybe others.
When you never see it coming the grim scythe of death sweeps down on your closed ones and takes them away from you for eternity. There's no use crying over their graveyard or anything like that because YOUR FRIEND IS GONE. Forever.
Life is a gift to all of us. Its just a timeframe for us to exist in. Life is just the essence of existence, and naturally that essence has to end, by death. It snuffs out the flame of life around you, leaving you alone. But one day it will come for you too, so you can finally leave this world with all your problems and sorrow behind. By death you have found the state of chaos, nothingness and..
Sure, you don't want your best friend to die. Who wants that? You had so many memories together, and suddenly, overnight, whosh. Your friend, swept away from this wretched plane on the wings of death to chaos.
There is no way to deal with this. You just break down and cry and cry and cry. But for once, if you would just learn to appreciate and embrace the beauty of death, you'll live like nothing has happened because you KNOW, that it is unstoppable, unavoidable,